A lot of times when I am talking to my children about things they are doing right (or wrong), a small voice goes, “Psst! What about you? Are you being compassionate with your husband/friend/neighbor like you are telling your older kid to be compassionate with your younger kid?” A lot of times that voice does not receive the most warm reception, but I am thankful that I am in a place where I am open to receive it and attempt to apply it.