Martini night musings.

Yesterday I had pomegranate martinis after dinner. I think they, rosebud martinis and watermelon martinis will carry me nicely through the Summer. Martini night was inspired by a week of, “Don’t touch him! Don’t touch her! Put that down! Now!” type of parenting without my husband to hand the kids to at some point in the day. I did not indulge in drunk dialing or imming, so nobody got hurt. This time. LOL.

I thought about the election, what good is really coming from the knock down drag out on the democratic side, why this year is the year of the black woman in the news. And what good does it do anyway? I mean, I think it is good for the issues of African American women to get attention and all, but can a sister get into the anchor chair on the national evening news already? At least black women are starting businesses at an amazing rate these days, deciding to take their destinies into their own hands, rather than wait for the equality at the workplace that appears to be elusive to so many. Now that Glamour crap? Shoot. All I can say about that is that I’m glad I outgrew that magazine eons ago.

I also thought about my daughter and how all of this negative image stuff affects her. Then I came to the conclusion that if I take care of things at home, the image stuff will iron itself out. For example, if Little A knows I’ll beat her a** if I ever see her THINKING about being “walking bling” in a rap video, she won’t be so quick to serve as somebody’s champagne receptacle. Image problem solved. Now I just have to find a way to stop reading these articles.


One response to “Martini night musings.”

  1. ebony Avatar

    I don’t read Glamour any more so I heard about it after the fact, and can’t find that mess anywhere. They did a very effective job of erasing that crap.
    I’m with you on the rap video thing. I hate to think what I would be capable of if my daughter thought about that foolishness.

    Actually, what happened was an editor gave a presentation to a law firm and she showed what was and was not fashionable corporate attire. The image came up of a black woman with natural hair and she said it was a “don’t” and something like political hairstyles like afros and dreadlocks had to go. Word got out about it and Glamour said the female was an assistant editor and was not authorized to make statements, but the latest issue has a summary of a roundtable they had about black women and fashion. During a season when one could count the number of black models on the fashion week runways in one hand, I found that a bit ironic, but anywhoo. LOL.

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