Sometimes bad stuff happens. Sometimes you meet this guy and you think he’s the greatest thing since sliced bread. Sometimes you think that he’s into you also. Sometimes you are going through photos with your friends and your supposed friend had a date with him that weekend you were out of town. Sometimes you wonder why your other mutual friends who knew all along did not feel the need to tell you. Sometimes you want to pick up a pile of bricks, one for each friend and the dude involved. But you don’t. You wonder how you did not see this coming. You decide to make better choices in friends and guys. You take a deep breath. And you forgive. And you get on with your life. I’m working on getting past the bricks part and onto the good part more quickly than I have been.
the f word
I think that forgiveness is not so much about the kindness to the person who did the wrong (a lot of times folks do all kinds of ugly stuff and don’t even acknowledge the hurt it causes to others)as it is about the act of taking mercy on one’s self. Getting on with the business of living. Moving past the dark episodes and on to the light.
2 responses to “the f word”
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I’m feeling this.
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TJs Things 
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